My car radio decided to be silent today. I don’t know why… So I was left driving with just thoughts after thoughts playing in my mind. After sometimes I found myself reminiscing my days in college, when I was doing my degree in Universiti Malaya. Many of my friends felt like their times as a student were the best time of their lives. But me? no… Not really.
I was so poor! Haha! I wore the same clothes over and over again. I walked to my faculty on top of the hill until I became the skinny person I am today and funny how the fat I lost walking when I was 19 hardly came back until today.
I stayed in First College for two years and the final year I spent renting with a dozen of others in an apartment in Vista Angkasa in then Kerinchi now Bangsar South. Ate from polistiren box everyday. I was very healthy until I stayed in Vista, where I got chicken pox and one time when I was sleeping over at a friend’s rental apartment, I woke up in the morning and both my feet and legs were bitten entirely by bed bugs. I asked myself what kind of life was I living in?
Sometimes I had only enough money for the day and called home asking from my Mom or my sisters and brother. I remember queuing at the CIMB for a long time hoping to withdraw RM100 but they forgot to bank in money for me so I could only take out RM20, leaving RM10 behind else I might as well close the account!
But these situation didn’t happen very often… Other times, I splurged! Haha! I was still blessed. Alhamdulillah! I had so many friends and they were wonderful. I gained so many experiences and of course I got my degree. I am very thankful for this but still, thanks but no thanks, college life was not the best time for me…
How did this old stories come out you might wonder… Well, Maybank Putrajaya was trying to be cute with me. I went to that branch on Friday ( we had a long lunch hour) to cash out a house cheque from my employer. It was actually my 2014 bonus. As you know, cashing a house cheque will enable you to get the money on the spot. So I went to counter, showed my IC.. yada yada yada… the money should be in my saving account already. I was so confident, that I misplaced the slip the officer gave me.
Came Sunday, I checked my account and not even a single cent of my hard earned bonus was even floating! Hey this was not right.. And I was reminded of the incident when I wanted to take out my duit makan from the ATM and there were none… when I was 20… living at Vista. Luckily I am not that broke today, and after a single phone call the missing money was traced and transferred back to my account.
I remind myself that I must be very thankful to the Al-Mighty. And to my husband and family who supported me. I am not rich now, and I know others had it worse than me. But I had tough times and I hope Miki Rafa won’t have to go through life like mine.
*third college –> vista –> always broke, too 🙂
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Haha u forgot u were from UM too.. What year? vista was horrible! Kids smoking pot on the stairs and way too many people in the apartment to make up for the rent.. But my housemates were very nice… 😉 Zarlina Mohd Zamari
matriks – 1993-1995 – degree – ..class of 99 B.Ed TESL. stayed in Vista (block 4) for four years. horrible place. no water. non functioning lifts..etc etc..you know the rest 🙂
Haha! Memories.. Memories… While looking for a place to rent, Melati Raduan and I went to the flat opposite Vista (now torn down) and I got a shock of my life.. Although I was from kampung and all I have never seen a real flat and a bathroom that small… Zarlina Mohd Zamari LOL
ko mmg dah skinny walaupun ko jalan naik bukit Diyana Yang lgpun as i remembered ko selalu naik van lol!
ke bas
I had my fair share of poor days too. Only enough money to buy brandless roti and leftover kuah curry. And one meal a day. Surely, I hope and pray that my kids won’t have to go through that.
aku dulu 56kilo… datang UM makan makanan dewan makan, pastu jalan kali setiap hari… terus turun 45kilo… kekallah berat itu sampai tahun 2014 baru naik 50 balik. ko tak ingat ke bas tu sekejap aja masa first year… pastu aku tumpang Yuzmin… Syikin…. etc sayang kwn2…. huwawawa…. N Zsazsa Ellyda
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Yan, I believe out situation is not so bad… ramai yang lagi teruk. But still this experience is a good reminder for us to work harder for the betterment of our own lives and our children. 🙂 If I write my entire life story, you nangis kot… hehehe
One time I was so broke and I had problems with PTPTN not paying me… Kak Azlina Mahbob drove me from UM to PTPTN is Wisma Chase then to UM and back again to settle the problem… what would I do without her? I will remember this forever… thank you kak iena…
Aawww…Welcome Diyana Yang…hehe..tulah..balik ke HEP..then to PTPTN again…sib baik kita x panjat je kaunter PTPTN tu kan? Lol. Love yah sis!
good read… and I believe most of us were once like that too…just remember where we stand 😀
Awww… you’ve definitely come a long way.. so proud of you my friend! aku ingat aku penah tumpang tidoq at your college room and also at your Vista place. Sungguh tak malu aku nih.
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We were in the same shoes! Atleast u ada boyfriend(azman) , hehe i remembered he belanjan u buat hair straighten. I masa tu takde boypren, so buat partime keje jual rokok marlboro jalan2 pusing bangsar..so bila dah keje, i swear to myself that i will work so fucking hard to improve my economy, and thanks to my cats also, they trained me to spent wisely. Yeah bila ingat balik sedih gila, i pernah nak buka puasa takde duit, minum air sejuk je k, nangis!!
Hahaha thanks.. Alah relax la Hazrina Z. Azizdin we were both from the so called “ghetto” katanya kan? Hahaha!
Dennis H Wong these stories may seem sad but these are the things that make us more determined and stronger in life. It also teaches me to be kind and understanding towards others, no? 😉
Azlina Mahbob love you too! I will not forget who helped me and who ignored me but only come into my life once I dah senang!!! ;p (that’s a different story)
Exactly Diyana Yang, we ain’t the kardashians…being famous out of thin air kinda material ????
Kahkahkah! Yeah we have substance in brain not butt like her! Hahaha! All praise to the All mighty for the lives we live today 🙂 Dennis H Wong
Hell no…I Do Not wanna have those kinda funky behinds. And the Devine works in mysterious ways to some which we will understand later in our lives
Shima Shaharuddin ye ke shima? Isk syahdu lak rasa… I thought u were one of the rich kids…yg i tahu kerja promoter tu Huda and she also did other parttime job and got paid handsomely. Huhu! We are the same dear…. I also swear to myself I don’t want to go through a few things that I really hate when I was young, so i put my standards high and works towards them. Alhamdulillah so far my life is better and I am happy! We were not rich kids but that make us rich in experiences! *hugs*
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Haha no i am not one of those Rich kids. Start from zero and hoping to be the hero. Yes dear, we strive to achieved what we have now and perhaps our kids no need to go trough the tough life we had before. Still being grateful with those experiences god gave to us, barula kita ni the real winner..tak mengharap kan family either our husband kan 🙂
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