31 Year Old Momma Me

Another super throwback entry… haha! Ladies and gentlemen, yours truly turned 31 years young a few weeks ago and like what I usually do on my birthdays, I spent some time thinking and reflecting on my life, calculating, analysing, counting my blessings and mishaps, on what went wrong, what I can do better etc etc.

After a looooong refreshing time I spent just sitting by myself and thinking for about… you know… 2.5 minutes… I can now make a conclusion that I am one of those people whose life gets better as they age. Alhamdulillah!

Health – Awesome schmawesome. Up until 31 years still no major sickness. Just zits come and go on my face, I think my skin still thinks I am an adolescent, what to do? I still do not have a weight problem even after big three zero. And most of the time, I am still underweight. How I can do better? I know I need to exercise more and eat more greens. Must laugh more and angry less. Hug my kids more. Plant more flowers. Also,I must take better care of the health of all the people in my family.

Family – I don’t know, it is sad that I see many marriages of the people my age being torn apart. Azman and I are happily married for (jap nak kira..lupa) seven years already Alhamdulillah and blessed with two kids Alhamdulillah and I really pray we will stay like this till the end. Insya Allah.

Career and life – When I was in college I went through a phase where I was frustrated with myself. I was an awesome schmawesome student at high school and scored many A’s fuyooo! (at that time A’s was still hard to get!). But when by luck I ended up with a degree course that I didn’t like and not even prestigious/glamorous I felt like I am not living my potential to the fullest. And for someone with my kinda ego that sucks big time. But as time goes by I learned to love myself more and be positive all the time. And now at 31 I am super loving myself, I am very confident with me and silly peer pressure will be reserved for Miki and his friends. There is nobody in this world I would rather be but me… I love what I do at the office and I hope my career can grow further. How I can do better at work? Well I know I should procrastinate less and read more. Gambatte!!

Wealth – Of course when you work for longer years you will earn more than before lah! I see some people my age ( and I guess) earn more than me but they work super long hours and requires them to be apart from their families and sacrifices so much so takpa la naa… thank you very much! Many also earn less than me so syukur lah Alhamdulillah.

Let me share something funny – Actually it is also great to be me as one of those low maintenance girl, I am not trendy, stylo, shopaholic, branded head-to-toe kinda woman. Coz when you are one, people expect you to be rich. And when I see these so called rich people I couldn’t help but laugh secretly – having to know what they do, where they work, and roughly how much they earn. My motto?

Bior tak bergaye ase tak pape janji cun juge ko ade? LOL

Here are pictures taken at dinner on the day I turned 31. Cheers!

Cucu-cucu Opah yang membaca belog ini, ini lah rupa Opah uols masa umur 31. Gedik kan? Ada Opah kisah?

Ni pulak Tok Man uols… Gedik jugak kan? Haa.. sessuaiii…

Ni lah Opah dengan si Miki yang kalau Opah tak peluk gitu dia takkan posing! Menyampah!