To my single friends, I know you are enjoying your single life to the max. Going clubbing from night till dawn, going on holiday to Europe, Africa, Japan. Shopping for party clothes and all the other things that your married with kids friends wouldn’t buy.
Go ahead my lovelies! Go ahead! Myself and the rest of our married (especially with kids) friends are very happy for you. We wish you all the fun and success and wealth so that you can shop till you drop and travel up to the moon. It would be nice if we could go with you, but we rather not.
I said WE RATHER NOT. It’s not like we cannot afford the bling-bling accesories, the trip to Middle East and the late night partying, but our lives are different now, our source of HAPPINESS is different than yours.
So when I say “How nice you could go to Europe for a month with your girlfriends!” that’s just me doing the formality and being nice. I do want to go for a trip to Europe but not without my family! I am a Mom now, without my baby, there is no HAPPY!
So please quit saying how sorry you are that I cannot join your all singles trips and parties and shopping sprees. Please stop saying as though the married ones are losing out on life. We are not. Europe will always be there when I wanna go there, but the spouse and babies? Are you sure you are getting any?
*matilah molotz puaker*
Kak D,hati2 berkata2!nanti akan menerima pembalasan di Padang Matsirat i tatau~~~
:p
HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA.Lawak terbaik Maal Hijrah 1432!hahah
Opy. hahahaha matilah aku pergi langkawi nanti kena perhitungan… ehhehehe
the best entry ever!!!! aku paling suka!!
The matsirat mistake is EPIC! No Kidding..!
Yay, love tis entry. Trip bersama keluarga sdr rasanya lebih manis keluar ngan friends, coz how close we are with them, there’s always boundaries. I think.
Yay, love tis entry. Trip bersama keluarga sdr rasanya lebih manis dari keluar ngan friends, coz no matter how close we are with them, there’s always boundaries. I think.
Trip and shopping at Bandung aje …
well said miss D. i especially like the part abt different source of happiness. it’s hard to explain until u have your own family/kids…
thumbs up all the way…
xx
But in my defense, being a single girl, i do get annoyed by my married friend too..
Whenever we say hi, she ALWAYS looks at me in a pitiful way and ask “Have u been lucky yet? Have u met anyone yet?”
WTF.
Ok thats all. Regardless, m sure your friends mean well and love u very much 🙂
what’s with you?
on your period or just simply not getting any from your boo?
gurls would bitch about just anything (personally i think this is a prime example of bitch mentality)
cant help but to feel a hint of jealousy in your post.
biar lah org tu nak pergi europe ker nak pergi koh samui ker nak pergi memana pun.
why cant you as a person be happy for your friend? at least she is enjoying herself (single or otherwise)
you yourself admit nie post nasty puaka.
here’s a question:
how does this post add to your own happiness? if you need to bitch about other people to be happy… then by God, aku kesian kat ko pompuan.
make us us wonder if you’re really happy with your own life.
(someone who is truly happy wouldn’t give a rat’s ass, and wouldn’t bitch about how some other people are enjoying their life)
bertaubat lah.
well said 🙂
Well said.
reefus maximus,
nobody is jealous of each other lah! im not jealous of them and they are not jealous of me. The thing that annoys me is the fact that they pity me for not being able to join them. They dont understand that I DO NOT WANT to join them.
It’s like feeling sorry for Imam Masjid Negara for not being able to celebrate Xmas! Pakcik tu tak hingin pun nak nyanyi lagu jingle bell bagai! Mengerti kah?
hahaha sangat setuju.. cuti2 mesia pon sangat happy as long as with my beloved hubby n kid, takyah sampai ke europe sana..
cheers babe!!
sangat suka entry ni!!! exactly how i felt tapi not courages enough to berterus terang like you.. oh, not only the singles mind you, in my office, mak2 yang anak dah besar panjang (dah keje pun ada) sebok ajak pegi holiday “just us gals” pastu bila kata no nak kesian kat kita pulak.. bukan xde duit hokey, just x nak! :p
Kam! Yes, you understand me – JUST TAK NAK! THANK YOU VERY MUCH!
went backpacking to europe last year with friends and brought along my 15mo baby.. no way im leaving her… not even for 1 day…
well said.
Honestly sometimes I DO envy the single girls for being able to do whatever they want whenever they want.
But like you said, that dont really make me happy anyways, i’d feel guilty leaving my baby. My source of happiness is really my baby and husband. A holiday aint a holiday without them.
Altho, it would be nice to be relieved of the motherly and wifey duties once in a while.
as long as my kids with me, pegi mana2 pun ok…n tak pegi mana2 pun still ok….that’s the beauty of being a mom….
i like like like (kuasa 18) this entry!!! i think this person was actually trying very hard to convince HERSELF and HERSELF only that her life is happening, jelles tgk life kita mak2 yg sebenarnya lebih happening (and also help!-pening!!). haha!
hehe. tak payah justify pun sebenornya. my friends don’t even bother to ajak me anymore coz i always say no pun.
jeles? biase lar.
but at least u have someone to go back to everytime.
diorang?
ade?
ADEEEE?
AAAADEEEEE?
Dy,
I know ur point. Senang cite pedulikkan kata2 org. Org mmg la suka bercakap sbb itu gunanya mulut kan. huhuhu..
Diorg nk berlawan biarlah. And I agree with a jugak. Yang penting hati senang and we know our priorities. Single life priority x sama dgn married life. Mungkin itu yang org kena paham. 🙂
Kiss kiss buat CIMIKI!
oic.. so now i know how does married women think..
so, lepas ni kalau nak pegi holiday ke, even hatta lunch dgn ofismet pun, i will choose my companions very carefully. no married ladies !! because simply you all punya mindset sangat lah lain dengan kitorg yg single nih..
tak faham knp single lady drag this prob sampai ke hal lunch..hihi maybe bila die dah kawen baru dia faham ape yang kak D cakap
macam saya yang baru je kawen sebulan pon fikir macam tu..tp bukan skrg..dah bertahun-tahun pon..selama ni kalau pg berjimba-jimba dgn kawan-kawan mesti teringat adik2 kat rumah (maybe sbb sy kakak yang bersifat macik-macik kot)
n lepas kawen(yang baru sebulan ni pon)nak pg bercuti still ajak adik2…adik2 hepy=hati bahagia gitu!belom ade anak lagi ni